Remaining a casualty of occurrence is a situation of being what we choose and a choice that we make. A choice that;
1. A choice that allows us to blame other people for what we want to do but because of discouragement and the situation around us or the circumstances, therefore we choose to listen to them. then when the choice did not favour us we blame them for discouraging us which is not so.
2 A choice that let us blame circumstances; We all know that circumstances means something that you cannot control that is happening in our life. for example you're in a situation whereby you came from a poor family and you have a lot of bills to pay but just because you did not have the money to pay does bills, that should not allow us to blame our friends or relativesor even our parents. you should try to get out of your comfort zone and make a change for a better living and everything will be ok by God's grace if you don't give up
3. A choice that permit you to avoid your personal life responsibilities because of what you are passing through then you forgot that you are also a somebody before God. Passing through some challenges should not allow you not to take part of your responsibilities. You should take care of yourself, smile always, meet new friends. By doing so, you're encouraging yourself for a better.
4. A choice that encourage you to feel sorry for your life; Passing through a lot of challenges,you should never let that to put you down. You should always remember that giving up will not allow you to achieve your goals, you should focus on your goals because surely you're going to face some challenges, you should never feel sorry for yourself in any situation because you deserve the best. and lastly
5. Remaining a casualty of occurrence will guarantee that; you you are not going to be successful or live the kind of life you wish for. This is the mindset of losers, people that doesn't have faith. when we have faith and we think Bigger, thinking ahead, looking up to what that is before us, having a positive mindsets, this will surely not allow us to remain a victim of any occurrences.
No one has to be a victim!